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Following are a collection of verses that speak to the Christian's behavior and character in how they deal with others.   These verses are especially applicable to what should be the most loving and intimate of relationships, the Christian husband-wife couple.

 

 

Rom 12:9

9 Let love be without hypocrisy. Abhor that which is evil; cleave to that which is good.  10 In love of the brethren be tenderly affectioned one to another; in honor preferring one another;

 

Rom 12:21

Be not overcome of evil, but overcome evil with good.

 Rom 13:10

Love worketh no ill to his neighbour: therefore love is the fulfilling of the law.

Rom 15:1-7

Rom 15:1 Now we that are strong ought to bear the infirmities of the weak, and not to please ourselves.  2 Let each one of us please his neighbor for that which is good, unto edifying.  3 For Christ also pleased not himself; but, as it is written, The reproaches of them that reproached thee fell upon me.  4 For whatsoever things were written aforetime were written for our learning, that through patience and through comfort of the scriptures we might have hope.  5 Now the God of patience and of comfort grant you to be of the same mind one with another according to Christ Jesus:  6 that with one accord ye may with one mouth glorify the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ.  7 Wherefore receive ye one another, even as Christ also received you, to the glory of God.

 

Col 3:8 - 19

Col 3:8 but now do ye also put them all away: anger, wrath, malice, railing, shameful speaking out of your mouth:  9 lie not one to another; seeing that ye have put off the old man with his doings,  10 and have put on the new man, that is being renewed unto knowledge after the image of him that created him:  11 where there cannot be Greek and Jew, circumcision and uncircumcision, barbarian, Scythian, bondman, freeman; but Christ is all, and in all. 

12 Put on therefore, as God’s elect, holy and beloved, a heart of compassion, kindness, lowliness, meekness, longsuffering;  13 forbearing one another, and forgiving each other, if any man have a complaint against any; even as the Lord forgave you, so also do ye:  14 and above all these things put on love, which is the bond of perfectness.  15 And let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, to the which also ye were called in one body; and be ye thankful.  16 Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly; in all wisdom teaching and admonishing one another with psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, singing with grace in your hearts unto God.  17 And whatsoever ye do, in word or in deed, do all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him. 

18 Wives, be in subjection to your husbands, as is fitting in the Lord.  19 Husbands, love your wives, and be not bitter against them.

 

Gal 5:13 – 15

Gal 5:13 For ye, brethren, were called for freedom; only use not your freedom for an occasion to the flesh, but through love be servants one to another.  14 For the whole law is fulfilled in one word, even in this: Thou shalt love thy neighbor as thyself.  15 But if ye bite and devour one another, take heed that ye be not consumed one of another. 

 

Gal 16 – 21

Gal 5:16 But I say, walk by the Spirit, and ye shall not fulfil the lust of the flesh.  17 For the flesh lusteth against the Spirit, and the Spirit against the flesh; for these are contrary the one to the other; that ye may not do the things that ye would.  18 But if ye are led by the Spirit, ye are not under the law.  19 Now the works of the flesh are manifest, which are these: fornication, uncleanness, lasciviousness,  20 idolatry, sorcery, enmities, strife, jealousies, wraths, factions, divisions, parties,  21 envyings, drunkenness, revellings, and such like; of which I forewarn you, even as I did forewarn you, that they who practise such things shall not inherit the kingdom of God.

 

 Gal 22 – 26

Gal 5:22 But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, kindness, goodness, faithfulness,  23 meekness, self-control; against such there is no law. 24 And they that are of Christ Jesus have crucified the flesh with the passions and the lusts thereof.  25 If we live by the Spirit, by the Spirit let us also walk.  26 Let us not become vainglorious, provoking one another, envying one another.

 

Gal 6:1 - 3

Gal 6:1 Brethren, even if a man be overtaken in any trespass, ye who are spiritual, restore such a one in a spirit of gentleness; looking to thyself, lest thou also be tempted.  2 Bear ye one another’s burdens, and so fulfil the law of Christ.  3 For if a man thinketh himself to be something when he is nothing, he deceiveth himself. 

Gal 6:4 - 10. Gal 6:4 But let each man prove his own work, and then shall he have his glorying in regard of himself alone, and not of his neighbor.  5 For each man shall bear his own burden.  6 But let him that is taught in the word communicate unto him that teacheth in all good things.  7 Be not deceived; God is not mocked: for whatsoever a man soweth, that shall he also reap.  8 For he that soweth unto his own flesh shall of the flesh reap corruption; but he that soweth unto the Spirit shall of the Spirit reap eternal life.  9 And let us not be weary in well-doing: for in due season we shall reap, if we faint not.  10 So then, as we have opportunity, let us work that which is good toward all men, and especially toward them that are of the household of the faith.

 Eph 4:1- 3

I, therefore, the prisoner of the Lord, entreat you to walk in a manner worthy of the calling with which you have been called, 2 with all humility and gentleness, with patience, showing forbearance to one another in love, 3 being diligent to preserve the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace.  

Eph 4:23 – 27 

Eph 4:23 and that ye be renewed in the spirit of your mind,  24 and put on the new man, that after God hath been created in righteousness and holiness of truth.  25 Wherefore, putting away falsehood, speak ye truth each one with his neighbor: for we are members one of another.  26 ​Be ye angry, and sin not: let not the sun go down upon your wrath:  27 neither give place to the devil.

  

Eph 4:29 - 5:2 

Eph 4:29 Let no corrupt speech proceed out of your mouth, but such as is good for edifying as the need may be, that it may give grace to them that hear.  30 And grieve not the Holy Spirit of God, in whom ye were sealed unto the day of redemption.  31 Let all bitterness, and wrath, and anger, and clamor, and railing, be put away from you, with all malice:  32 and be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, even as God also in Christ forgave you. 

Eph 5:1

Be ye therefore imitators of God, as beloved children;  2 and walk in love, even as Christ also loved you, and gave himself up for us, an offering and a sacrifice to God for an odor of a sweet smell.

1Cor 13:4

Love is patient, love is kind, and is not jealous; love does not brag and is not arrogant, 5 does not act unbecomingly; it does not seek its own, is not provoked, does not take into account a wrong suffered, 6 does not rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth; 7 bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. 8 Love never fails . . .

Jas 1:19-20 

Jas 1:19 ​Ye know this , my beloved brethren. But let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, slow to wrath:  20 for the wrath of man worketh not the righteousness of God.

  

Jas 1:26 

Jas 1:26 If any man thinketh himself to be religious, while he bridleth not his tongue but deceiveth his heart, this man’s religion is vain.

  

Jas 3:6-12 

Jas 3:6 And the tongue is a fire: the world of iniquity among our members is the tongue, which defileth the whole body, and setteth on fire the wheel of nature, and is set on fire by hell. 7 For every kind of beasts and birds, of creeping things and things in the sea, is tamed, and hath been tamed by mankind. 8 But the tongue can no man tame; it is a restless evil, it is full of deadly poison. 9 Therewith bless we the Lord and Father; and therewith curse we men, who are made after the likeness of God: 10 out of the same mouth cometh forth blessing and cursing. My brethren, these things ought not so to be. 11 Doth the fountain send forth from the same opening sweet water and bitter? 12 Can a fig tree, my brethren, yield olives, or a vine figs? Neither can salt water yield sweet.

  

Jas 3:13-18

Jas 3:13 Who is wise and understanding among you? let him show by his good life his works in meekness of wisdom. 14 But if ye have bitter jealousy and faction in your heart, glory not and lie not against the truth. 15 This wisdom is not a wisdom that cometh down from above, but is earthly, sensual, devilish. 16 For where jealousy and faction are, there is confusion and every vile deed. 17 But the wisdom that is from above is first pure, then peaceable, gentle, easy to be entreated, full of mercy and good fruits, without variance, without hypocrisy. 18 And the fruit of righteousness is sown in peace for them that make peace.

 

Jas 4:11-12

Jas 4:11 Speak not one against another, brethren. He that speaketh against a brother, or judgeth his brother, speaketh against the law, and judgeth the law: but if thou judgest the law, thou art not a doer of the law, but a judge. 12 One only is the lawgiver and judge, even he who is able to save and to destroy: but who art thou that judgest thy neighbor?

 

Jas 5:16

Jas 5:16 Confess therefore your sins one to another, and pray one for another, that ye may be healed. The supplication of a righteous man availeth much in its working.

  

1 Pet 3:8 - 13

1Pet 3:8 Finally, be ye all likeminded, compassionate, loving as brethren, tenderhearted, humbleminded: 9 not rendering evil for evil, or reviling for reviling; but contrariwise blessing; for hereunto were ye called, that ye should inherit a blessing. 10 For, He that would love life, And see good days, Let him refrain his tongue from evil, And his lips that they speak no guile: 11 And let him turn away from evil, and do good; Let him seek peace, and pursue it. 12 For the eyes of the Lord are upon the righteous, And his ears unto their supplication: But the face of the Lord is upon them that do evil. 13 And who is he that will harm you, if ye be zealous of that which is good?

 

Acts 24:16

​Herein I also exercise myself to have a conscience void of offence toward God and men always.

 

 1Cor 13:1

Though I speak with the tongues of men and of angels, and have not charity, I am become as sounding brass, or a tinkling cymbal.  2 And though I have the gift of prophecy, and understand all mysteries, and all knowledge; and though I have all faith, so that I could remove mountains, and have not charity, I am nothing.  3 And though I bestow all my goods to feed the poor, and though I give my body to be burned, and have not charity, it profiteth me nothing. 

4 Charity suffereth long, and is kind; charity envieth not; charity vaunteth not itself, is not puffed up,  5 Doth not behave itself unseemly, seeketh not her own, is not easily provoked, thinketh no evil;  6 Rejoiceth not in iniquity, but rejoiceth in the truth;  7 Beareth all things, believeth all things, hopeth all things, endureth all things.  8 Charity never faileth: but whether there be prophecies, they shall fail; whether there be tongues, they shall cease; whether there be knowledge, it shall vanish away.  9 For we know in part, and we prophesy in part.  10 But when that which is perfect is come, then that which is in part shall be done away.  11 When I was a child, I spake as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child: but when I became a man, I put away childish things.  12 For now we see through a glass, darkly; but then face to face: now I know in part; but then shall I know even as also I am known.  13 And now abideth faith, hope, charity, these three; but the greatest of these is charity.

charity =  agape (Greek)